Christian Grey, The Archetype Of The Perfect Male Adonis?

 “If you don’t like to read, you haven’t found the right book” – J.K Rowling  


Since E.L James blessed us ladies with the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, the character of Christian Grey has had females across the globe swooning, pining for his muscular physique and sensual grey eyes. This fictional character is arguably the archetype of the perfect male Adonis – wealthy, successful, romantic, attentive, spontaneous, ridiculously gorgeous with the ability to awaken a woman’s ‘inner goddess’ as Anastacia Steele describes her passionate, albeit risqué bedroom shenanigans with Mr Grey. Which woman wouldn’t want to be explored to the depths of no return, cherished and adored? I, for one, can proudly admit that I was, and still am utterly enthralled by Christian and couldn’t tear myself away from the book for days.

I was browsing on Twitter when I came across an intriguing discovery. The likeness was uncanny. A Christian Grey Twitter account. Someone had brought E.L James’ creation to life to over 97,500 followers. This translates into over 90,000 women hanging onto every last word of the CEO. He often asks followers about their day, affectionately referring to them as ‘baby’, the same nickname that he gives to Ana in the novel. I ask myself, what has caused such a phenomenon? Is it because of Grey’s authoritative presence yet gentlemanly politeness that has made women shriek delightfully at the mere mention of his name? Is it because we have become accustomed to a multitude of males that lack the fundamental characteristics of Grey, or are we setting ourselves up for disappointment with an unrealistic viewpoint of males? Some critics have contemptuously referred to Christian as having the attributes of an abusive partner. Now this is quite a controversial topic. 

Christian’s nightmares, a result of his horrific incidents during his childhood, have caused insecurities meaning he is petrified of losing Ana. Consensual BDSM acts aside, in no way does he subject Ana to mental, physical or emotional abuse, if anything, he learns how to become a better person, to love, respect and adhere to Ana’s needs and desires. In addition to their libidinous relationship, the fundamental factors of the couple are sincere. 

This is a beautiful love story of two souls who need each other. I believe that the story of a powerful man with insecurities (the classic rags to riches story) who assimilates to the needs of an ordinary woman (who could be seen as a microcosm for women everywhere) is where Christian’s appeal lies. A man who embraces every curve of the female anatomy in all its glory, flaws and all, while effectively diminishing insecurities. A connoisseur of body language, intimate female affairs (as well as hair, beauty and clothing) that endeavours to keep his lady jubilant. A man who worships the ground that his woman walks upon, making her feel in a way in which no other man could – sexually, mentally, excitement, spontaneity, exploration (“We aim to please Miss Steele.”) A man who encourages you to become a better woman who swims in confidence. He is every woman’s fantasy. 

If you’ve finished the trilogy and are yearning for more or you simply cannot go through the day without your daily dose of Grey then be sure to visit the Christian Grey Twitter page @ChristianTGrey and fall hopelessly in love with the CEO at Grey Enterprises Holdings Inc.